For Divorce Attorneys

Resources for Divorce Attorneys

Published articles, weekly E-Tips, attorney training, and practical guidance on retirement division in divorce.

TOVA's resources are written for divorce attorneys handling QDROs, retirement tracing, settlement language issues, pension division, and plan-specific retirement problems.

Free Tools

Free Tools for Divorce Attorneys

Practical guides and forms on the retirement issues that come up most often in matrimonial practice. Request what you need and we will send it to you. Free to keep, and free to share with your clients. No class required.

Records

Records Discovery Intake Form

The intake form for a stuck tracing case: what to gather, and the account history to capture, when statements are missing or the plan says the older records are gone.

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For attorneys

RMD in Divorce: Attorney Reference

How required minimum distributions interact with dividing a retirement account in divorce, and the timing traps that catch attorneys when a participant is at or near RMD age.

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For your clients

QDRO Client Guide

A plain-language guide you can hand to a divorcing client so they understand what a QDRO is, what it does to their retirement account, and what to expect. Written to save you the explaining.

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Before signing

Pre-Signing Checklist

A retirement-language checklist to run through before any settlement agreement is signed. Catch the issues that get QDROs rejected later.

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Records

The Seven-Year Wall

What to do when the plan says it only keeps seven years of statements. Recovering retirement history that runs back to the date of marriage.

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Earned at the Lab

The SLIP Playbook

SLIP stands for Settlement Language Instruction Playbook. It is the working reference attorneys take away from a TOVA SLIP Lab: the retirement division language that gets defined contribution plans and IRAs through plan review, and the drafting that sends them back.

What is inside

  • How "marital share" gets defined so a plan administrator can act on it
  • Why gains and losses language changes what actually transfers
  • The difference between a percentage award and a dollar award, and when each one fails
  • Loan, withdrawal, and rollover wording that keeps an order clean
  • The plan-review reasons a defined contribution order or IRA division gets rejected
  • Clause-by-clause language attorneys can compare their own drafts against

Attend a SLIP Lab to receive the full Playbook

The Playbook is taught, not downloaded. Attorneys work through the language with Denisa at a SLIP Lab and leave with the full reference in hand. If you would like to attend, or bring a Lab to your firm or bar association, start here.

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Earned at the Masterclass

Sample Subpoena Templates and the Records Discovery Toolset

The provider-specific subpoena and records-request templates are the heart of TOVA's records-recovery work, the language that gets a plan to hand over the data behind the seven-year wall. Attorneys receive the full toolset at the Records Discovery Masterclass, or by request for an active case.

What the toolset covers

  • Provider-specific subpoena templates: Fidelity, Vanguard, Empower, TIAA, IRA custodians, and more
  • Model records-request language for plan administrators and prior record keepers
  • A client intake form for the retirement history you need to reconstruct
  • A discovery handbook that walks the request from first letter to received records
  • A plan-identification reference for naming the right party to ask

How to get the templates

The templates are taught and shared, not posted for public download, so the language stays controlled and current. Attend the Records Discovery Masterclass to receive the full set, or request access for an active case and we will send what fits.

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Publications

Published Work

Articles and professional publications by Denisa Tova-Liebman on retirement division, forensic tracing, settlement language, and QDRO issues in divorce.

ACFLS Journal

The Hidden Risk in Retirement Settlements: Why Gains and Losses Can Break Your Agreement

Summer 2025

Examines how market movement between the cutoff date and the date of transfer can shift retirement division by tens of thousands of dollars. Walks through real scenarios where gains and losses language created unintended outcomes, and provides a framework for drafting settlement provisions that account for this risk.

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NYSBA Family Law Review

Poorly Drafted Language in Settlement Agreements Keep Courts Busy and Practitioners on the Edge of Malpractice

August 2023

Identifies the most common drafting errors in retirement settlement provisions, from undefined "marital share" references to time-rule formulas applied to the wrong plan type. Includes specific examples of language that courts have struggled to interpret and plan administrators have rejected.

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NYSBA Family Law Review

Creating Liquidity from Retirement Assets in Divorce

December 2018

Explores how retirement accounts can be structured to provide immediate liquidity during divorce settlement. Covers the tax implications of in-service distributions, the mechanics of QDRO-eligible rollovers, and the constraints that different plan types impose on how and when funds can be accessed.

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Weekly Email

TOVA E-Tips

Weekly retirement division tips for divorce attorneys. Short, practical guidance on QDROs, tracing, settlement language, records discovery, and plan-specific issues.

Read by 6,000+ attorneys and legal professionals.

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Education

Attorney Training Programs

Live and on-demand attorney trainings for law firms and bar associations on the retirement division issues that cause settlement delays, rejected orders, and missed value.

Settlement Language Instruction Lab for DC Plans and IRAs

For attorneys who want to spot retirement division language issues before the agreement is signed. Attendees receive the Settlement Language Instruction Guide.

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Breaking the 7-Year Wall

For attorneys dealing with missing, incomplete, or supposedly unavailable retirement records. Attendees receive model subpoena letters and a retirement discovery guide.

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Training materials are provided to attendees only.

Start Here

Start With What You Have.

Upload the most recent retirement statement, settlement agreement, judgment, or draft language. We will review it and point your office in the right direction.

New York and National

For attorneys in all 50 states except Colorado-filed cases.

Start a New York or National Case Or email QDROteam@TovaRetirement.com

Colorado Cases

For cases filed in Colorado courts or involving Colorado-based plans.

Start a Colorado Case Or email coloradoqdroteam@tovaretirement.com

Not sure where it fits? Send it anyway. We will route it.
Email sedelman@tovaretirement.com and we will point your office in the right direction.

Ready to Move the Retirement Piece Forward?

Whether you need a QDRO, tracing, retirement division language review, records guidance, or a private training for your firm, start here.

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Bring practical retirement division training to your firm, bar association, or legal team.

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